Mess Magnets: Messchella 2025
Mess MagnetsApril 19, 2025

Mess Magnets: Messchella 2025

Mess Magnets: Messchella 2025

Mess Magnets is the ultimate pop-culture gossip pod! Join your hosts Kirsten MacInnis and Sasha Joseph as they spill the tea on all the latest celebrity news, trending topics, and captivating stories shared by our dedicated listeners. With each episode, Kirsten and Sasha bring you inside scoops, juicy details, and thought-provoking discussions that will keep you hooked. Tune in and stay up-to-date with the ever-evolving world of entertainment as Mess Magnets takes you on a wild ride through the most intriguing stories!

This week:

7:40-33:25 – coachella
33:33-43:47 Katy Perry in space
43:5050:08 love is blind updates
51:47-55:20 quick bites
55:26-1:08;30 anonymess

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[00:00:14] Hi, I'm Kirsten. And I'm Asia. And this is Mess Magnets. That's right. We're back baby. But Sasha is away. She had a very, very busy week at work. And so I had to find, you know, a pinch hitter. And thankfully, Asia has answered the call. Asia, how are you?

[00:00:34] I'm doing well. I'm excited. This is my first time on Mess Magnets. So I'm excited to be here. I love just celebrity gossip in TikTok. I am chronically on TikTok. I'm the friend that most likely if my friends send me stuff, I'm like, I already saw that.

[00:00:55] Oh my God. Okay. But do you tell them or do you just like send an LOL? Because I have, I've stopped telling people if I've already seen something. I've had to switch my tune. So I have like a couple of my best friends, we have a group chat. And when they for a while, if they sent me something I already saw, I would just heart it.

[00:01:17] But then if I hadn't seen it, I'd react appropriately like, oh, oh my gosh, whatever. And so then we reached a point where they said, I get so annoyed when you send that heart. I was like, what? Well, you got to get up, be early on TikTok if you want to be Asia to the punch. Did you see the TikTok of that, this woman going like, crimp your hair, my hair with me while my self tan marinates.

[00:01:44] And she literally looks like a maw. No. Okay, I'm going to send it to you. Because obviously like when you're like self tan, like looks darker before you wash it off. But like using way too dark of one anyway. And her hair is like, she's like twisting it and then like crimping it. And so my hair is really giving Survivor. Oh my God. Right. That is, that's hilarious. No, I haven't seen that.

[00:02:13] But I, um, I do love TikTok. I do love staying up to date with anybody. I even had to like, there was a certain point. My ratio was real off on Instagram. Like I followed way too many people. And most of them were celebrities because I just wanted to stay up to date. So I kind of, I kind of started dialing back. I'm like, look, if it's a celebrity I'm going to think of and look up, I don't need to follow. Unless it's like Beyonce. Beyonce. Hello.

[00:02:45] What? You're going to not follow Beyonce? Right. That's who would do that? Honestly, I'm at the point where I'm like, should I turn on post notifications for Taylor Swift in case like reputation gets dropped? Just in case. You don't want to take any chances. So if I'm like, if I'm going to think of somebody, I'm like, okay, I can just unfollow them. And that helped me get to like a manageable following. But I love keeping up with celebrities, influencers, anybody really. Someone from my high school. You know.

[00:03:15] All the drama. That's no me and and Mary, your co-host for love is blind coverage over on the daddy network, which is what we call our HB here. She and I will constantly be sending each other TikToks of like, oh, we saw someone from high school post a photo without their husband. Like, let's get out the magnified glass. We have to investigate. Throws on the glasses.

[00:03:41] Throws on the husband changes profile picture to just his kids. And the wife has been working out every day. Right. Exactly. It like it takes nothing to be able to say, OK, oh, my gosh, let me go snoop. Like one change in behavior in the posting. Like, OK, let me go investigate. But yeah, if I mean, if people have never heard of me and this is your first introduction, you know, yes, I do know the daddy network.

[00:04:10] Y'all should copyright that, actually. It originated on this podcast. But over on the daddy network, I talk about Married at First Sight over on my podcast with Jason Reed about the show Married at First Sight, which is has been on Lifetime through its 18th season. But now it's moving over to Peacock for season 19. So that's a very exciting move. Yes, that is so huge. Like Peacock has been literally slaying with reality TV.

[00:04:40] We're like we're about to get a flood of new watchers for Married at First Sight. I can't wait for it to be like on my main FYP for TikTok. Like I have to look up Married at First Sight stuff for Married at First Sight stuff to start popping up. But I feel like similar to like, I don't know, even the traders, like the traders content was everywhere flooding my FYP. So it's capable. Yeah, exactly.

[00:05:06] So I feel like Married at First Sight is chaotic enough to like it's definitely going to reach some new eyes. So, yeah, that's that's my main bread and butter. And then, of course, help cover Big Brother throughout the season. And then I was on Survivor 47. I love how you said you go quiet again. I was on Survivor 47. I like came. I don't think anybody knows this who listens.

[00:05:32] But like I did have like a brief little brush with casting for Big Brother Canada where I was like, I literally was on TV for two seconds. It doesn't count as anything. And so I don't ever talk about it because it's so embarrassing. But recently my coworkers did discover the gifts of me and Microsoft team. And so that I did have to tell them about the whole thing. And it's so funny because people be like, that's so cool. Yeah. Like a celebrity. I'm like, no. Remove that word from your mouth. And I like was on TV for like two seconds.

[00:06:01] You're on Survivor, which is like a legitimate show that everybody watches. So I think it's interesting. I'm like, I'm on Survivor 47. It's okay. You can just say it loud and proud because you got screwed. Scream it from the rooftop. And I'm still mad about it. Like, no spoilers, but just, you know, hit it hard with the premiere and then watch a few more episodes and you'll see my Survivor journey. I'm so mad. I can't talk about it. I can't imagine how you feel because I'm still literally. I know it's wild.

[00:06:32] It's been a year. Like we're coming up on a year. How did you come? Actually, I know this is not related to like mess maintenance at all, but like, how are you feeling? Like when you're out, like how. Like you're doing good now. I feel like your life is very full and beautiful now. I think that's what helps. I think like having things that I love and care about in real life really helps because after the show, it's like what matters, you know? Yes.

[00:06:59] Because you spend so long preparing like the casting process is months long. And like you, you that's all you're focused on. And then going through the experience, it's like, oh, my gosh. Okay, you go and film. Then you come back. You can't tell anybody. And then the show airs and that's you're still going through that experience.

[00:07:17] So it wasn't like I could really start recovery until January of this year where I'm just like just diving into just like all the stuff that I enjoy doing, which has helped, which has helped me watch this current season as a fan. Which I was really I was I didn't know how I would feel, but I've been able to watch as a fan and completely separate it from my experience. So I'd say I'm in a good place. I love that for you. This is wonderful. Let's okay.

[00:07:46] Let's jump into Coachella, baby. It's currently Coachella weekend to last week. It all kicked off and I feel like, okay. We do have to talk like Lady Gaga, obviously. Like, it's like you can't even talk about their performance because it's just like, yes, it was perfect. Go watch it. Like, but we have to mention like if we didn't mention that it happened, that would be irresponsible journalism.

[00:08:11] So I wish I I don't know why I haven't seen more people talking about like the performance itself. Like everything I'm seeing on like TikTok is, oh, I enjoy that. Like Lady Gaga. It's I'm not even seeing that. All I'm seeing on TikTok is get ready with me for Coachella day one. Yeah, there's my hair. Come back for part two for my makeup. Okay. Come back for part three for my outfit. And then outfits are mostly bad.

[00:08:41] Is that the goal? Is that the goal now? Like be as creative as you can be to the point where people don't understand it. Everybody's so creative. I don't even know because I think that there is that side of it where it's like push the envelope. You are wearing a bedazzled bikini and hot pants and cowboy boots and like as little and as weird as possible.

[00:09:08] But then the vibe I feel like for the past few years has been like, oh, I'm too cool to care. So I'll just wear like a tank top and a short. Yeah. And like, I feel like isn't there a happy medium? There really is. There really is. But people want to be the most talked about. They want to see who clicks on or like if you're generating comments, then you're winning. Yes. In their mind. Yeah.

[00:09:36] This influencer, Ashley LaMarca, I think is her name. She posted her day one outfit and it was it was so it's a pair of jeans. The left leg is a full is a full jean. And the right leg is a like a short a booty short. And then she got dragged to hell like in the next day. She's like, OK, anyways, here's my gold glittery dress. Moving on. I loved it.

[00:10:03] There was also like a ton going on with the like Coachella camping experience, which in case people don't know. Coachella Music Festival in the desert in California. And you can camp on site or you can stay like in a house and drive in. Camping is ten thousand dollars. And like, I know. I know that there are people putting this on their credit card.

[00:10:31] Like if you are making eighty thousand dollars a year and putting a ten thousand dollar Coachella campsite on your credit card, I beg you to look at your priorities. I think because I think they said 75 percent of people are financed their Coachella tickets. You have to. You have to. It's expensive. You're like, oh, ask them in two years. Oh, how are you doing? Still paying off Coachella.

[00:10:56] Which like me literally like I'm still paying off so many things. But that's why I know not to add a ten thousand dollar Coachella weekend. Right. Exactly. But wait. OK, ten thousand dollars to camp out. Is that worth it when you could get a hotel that's outside of Coachella, which I didn't find out until a few years ago. Like that's actually what the city is called. But like you're but you have to pay for an Uber. Right. To the area. Yeah.

[00:11:26] That all is going to be less than ten thousand dollars. Right. For three. And you have like a nice shop. But I think that the camping and like the suffering is part of it. The experience. For these music festivals. Like, I don't know. But apparently there was like big issues logistically with Weekend One. I haven't seen any updates from Weekend Two yet. So I haven't either. People will be kind of quiet. Yeah.

[00:11:50] But this year they didn't start letting people in until 9 a.m. on the Thursday, which is later than usual. And so there were these huge, huge, huge, huge lines. I also apparently like a car campsite is like five hundred dollars. Like you can get cheaper. OK. I guess it's just like the really, quote, nice campsites. Yeah.

[00:12:19] But everyone is it. Has this always been a thing? I didn't I don't feel like we heard about it as much as we had this year with the showers. Like you have the deluxe or whatever it's called shower. Yeah. And then you had like more communal shower. I mean, I have to imagine that that's how it's always been, because how else are you going to camp? Yeah. Yeah. Like it's just like camping's not fun. Like, I don't know. I mean, the camping is fun.

[00:12:48] Like people, people who love camping, love camping. And I love that for them. And I'm so happy for them. I'm an indoor cat. So to me, this whole experience sounds miserable. Look, I this is how little like this is how little my interest is for camping. I prepared for Survivor in every way possible except for camping. Like I'd never camped a day in my life before going out there. My dad was in the military.

[00:13:15] He was like, I've slept in enough tents and on enough cots. We're not going camping. And I think you have gone as a kid to really have a love for it. You know what he does now? Every weekend, they're in the trailer. They're on a campsite. They're at the ocean. So just goes to show people can change. You're right. Um, but yeah, so people were just waiting forever. It's like 100 degrees. You're literally in the desert. You're waiting in your car.

[00:13:46] It was not good. They were supposed to fix it for this weekend. I just I had to like even like going back to the showers. I had to look up like it was called the super duper showers. Those had the longest line. And then you just had the regular showers that like you could walk in. But it was similar to like just showering out of like the end of a hose. Basically, you get the hose.

[00:14:14] At that point, I'm getting the white like there's these wipes. Like I have a lot of friends with kids. And there's these specific wipes that are like water based. Those wipes do wonders. I mean, if you you got to do what you got to do. I feel like even if you had like the best everything shower in the world, you're still going to feel dusty and musty at Coachella anyway. So like walk out. I guess you just have to compromise hygiene. I don't know.

[00:14:44] Exactly. People are like there's like Reddit threads of like, hi, like I'm a first time car camper. Like, how do I do it? And people go shower as early as possible. If like this person said one time the showers caught on fire while I was in them. Like, hello. And this was two years ago. Right. Listen, I've been to one festival, which was Austin City Limits in Austin, Texas. But I did only one day.

[00:15:14] Like I didn't commit to the full weekend. And obviously there are different prices for all three days compared to one day. And I was specifically interested in seeing Corinne Bailey Ray. And so went that one day. I did her meet and greet. There was no one in line. And it was just a great experience. Stayed in a hotel. Well, yes. Camp. I have gone to Warped Tour two times when I was like 16 and 17 when Warped Tour was still a thing. And that's it's a one day.

[00:15:44] It's a one day only. You get there early. You're there all day. And by the end of one day of Warped Tour, you are dusty. You are sweaty. You are crusty, musty, disgusting. So I can't imagine a moving that from Canada to the desert and also doing it all week. Like people who do Coachella are built different. And I wish I could be them. Yeah.

[00:16:08] I know one person who was there for Beyonce and she had to literally camp, like stay at the stage. Beyonce was going to be at that entire day or else you just weren't going to get a spot. So she had to commit to everybody else that was like. Yes. Yeah. I mean, you have to. And then also like that sucks because you might have to watch things you don't like. But also like imagine all the artists that go all day before Beyonce goes on and they're like, oh, the crowd is on their phones.

[00:16:38] Not paying attention to me because they're literally waiting for Beyonce. Yeah, exactly. Which, hey, I'm very excited to announce that I'll be going to the Cowboy Carter Tour in Houston June 29th. Look, I'm committing. Did you have to sell a kidney? Pretty close. I literally have a friend's bachelorette that weekend. And I just bought my flight back early so that I can get to Beyonce. She understood, though. I listen.

[00:17:08] These bachelorette trips have gone out of hand. Let's be clear. I don't know about your friend specifically. Like, I'm sure it's going to be a really fun weekend. But it's like you don't know what the future holds. That friend could have another bachelorette party in the future. But you don't know if you'll get to see Beyonce again. But I do wish your friend, obviously, all the best and happiness. That's funny. Yeah.

[00:17:37] I mean, that's a reality. You don't know how many bachelorette parties someone's going to have. But yeah, that's how I was like, I have to find a way to make both work. I, you know, it's Beyonce. It's Beyonce. For Charli XCX's performance, she had Lorde. She had Troye Sivan. She had Billie Eilish. Yeah. It's crazy. Amazing.

[00:18:07] Which, because if you can bring out somebody. No, you have multiple people that could stand on their own during a Coachella performance. That's a good, an amazing performance. So props to her. Because that, I'm sure those people there were overjoyed. I think that we're going to, people are going to probably try to have Brat Summer 2.0 this year. As like a form of escapism. I went, I actually went to a Charli XCX themed spin ride recently.

[00:18:38] And the instructor kept being like, because you know, like, they'll be like, okay, team, like you can do this. He kept being like, okay, Brat. I would think it's been like weeks and I can't stop thinking about it. Just kicking my feet and giggling. Those are so immersive too. Like a bit, like, because it's just like, that's your world for 45 minutes. Whole world. You come out of there. They're like, why is no one else talking about Brat Summer still? Why is no one else calling me a brat? Right.

[00:19:07] Like Kirsten, that was last year. Just lightly also want to mention, do you watch Love Island? No, but I keep up. How could you not with Love Island USA season six? Exactly. Also on Peacock. Just like the upcoming season of Married at First Sight. They had. Well, first of all, there's also been an announcement that a bunch of the Love Island USA season six cast are having their own reality show in like a Vanderpump Rules style. Yeah.

[00:19:37] Living in LA. What's it called? The Love Island Beyond the Villa? Beyond the Villa. Yes. Thank you. So that has just been announced, which I am very excited about as a Love Island USA girly. And everyone's up in arms because Cordell is not one of the people listed is because he has a prior engagement. He's on a scripted show. Do you think he's on Traitors? Oh, I think he's on Traitors. I don't even think he could be lying. I'm so going. I got to take up for his word.

[00:20:04] It could be a scripted opportunity. I think he's on the train. I didn't even. Personally. Come to mind. But that's that could that is like. But OK, does he go on there as Odell Beckham Jr.'s brother or as like a Love Island contestant? I think that they would. It's tough because you like having like the brother of situation.

[00:20:34] Yeah, Zac Efron. Love Island USA season six was literally the biggest show last summer. Like it was number one. Look, when I came back, we were out there at the same time as them. In Fiji, like both shows are in Fiji. Yeah. And so when I came back, I'm like, why is everyone like? Like, OK, normally people talk about Love Island, but I was like, everyone is talking about Love Island. What did I miss?

[00:21:02] You were like, what do you mean Love Island USA is better than Love Island UK right now? What do you what do you mean? I like I literally was just trapped on a desert island. And now Love Island USA is the best. Right. I was like, where did this happen? And literally my mom was locked in. That's one of the reasons I was like up to date. So. I love that. Who does your mom like stand? Anyone specific? Do you know? Well, I mean, she loves Cordell and.

[00:21:32] Is it Serena? Yeah. Serena and Cordell are great. Janae is an icon. Obviously, Leah is the people's princess. Is it surprising that they're all still together? Yes. OK. For Love Island USA, it is extremely surprising. OK. That there's like three couples and they're going strong. And like. Miguel and Leah are getting married like they're not engaged, but I know like he literally did an interviewer.

[00:22:01] He was like, yeah, that's my wife. Like, that's my future wife. Yeah. That's my future wife. And I'm like, yes, I can't wait for their televised wedding special on. Yeah. I mean, I think it's impressive. They found so many people willing to actually have like a relationship. This is listen. This is season six of Love Island USA. There are three couples that are still together. Combined Love Island USA seasons one to five. There might be one couple still. And they broke up and got back together. Yeah. Well, is the couple.

[00:22:31] I just saw something on TikTok of there was a. So she's black and the guy. I wasn't sure what he was, but they were together. I don't think is this love is that Love Island UK. I wasn't sure what he was. It's crazy. I just know he wasn't black. Do you know what her name is? Well, I just know that they recently broke up and she made a very like a post about like

[00:22:59] having to deal with like this breakup. And I'm like, is that Love Island UK? It's Love Island UK. OK, it is. That was Whitney. Yes. That's her name. And Lachlan. And Lachlan. Yes. Because I the reason I would always see them is because they would come up on my FYP. And I'm like, OK, I guess I'm following this couple. Like I I'm keeping up with he cooks for her or cooked because they're they broke up.

[00:23:28] But he would always cook for her. And it was just like this really sweet situation. And they broke up after two years. Wow. Yeah. No, I do not keep up with with this one. Yeah. I. But yeah, that's Love Island UK definitely has had some like very successful ones. But they also like last year, like the biggest Love Island UK couple. Yeah. Announced their divorce. Tommy and and Molly May. Molly May.

[00:23:58] But yeah, so anyways, PPG and all of most of Love Island USA season six were also at Coachella is the point. But yes, but they were staying separately, right? Yeah. PPG had a house. The rest were in like hotels and they had separate hotel rooms. And I saw someone was like, Liv, why aren't you and Kayla sharing a hotel room? And Liv was like, what if we want to bring someone home? Fair. Okay. You guys are crazy.

[00:24:26] I'm really excited for them to have their own show. And the cast is weird. So it's exciting. I mean, I think no matter what people are going to be tuned in. So this was brilliant for them to do this. Yes. Well, they can't have them all on Love Island Games because they're all still together. Like, I think that they were probably like they probably had a cast for Love Island Games season two. And then they were like, okay, wait, but we need someone from PPG. So let's just like wait and like maybe they'll break up and then we can have like some people on. And then everyone's together and they're like, okay. Yeah.

[00:24:57] Cancel of Island Games. Let's go. Right. Okay. Okay. The last thing about Coachella is there was a little bit of a drama between Alex Earl and Kelsey Anderson from The Bachelor. Okay. You watch The Bachelor, right? Yes. Okay. So I do not know who Kelsey Anderson is. Can you give me some context?

[00:25:21] Kelsey Anderson is the funniest winner, I think, in recent history. So Kelsey Anderson is who Joey picked. So Joey Grisotti, I think, is his last name. That's a name I've heard before. Yeah. So he was on Dancing with the Stars. He won Dancing with the Stars. Okay. Actually. Let me not misspeak. Did Gabby win Dancing with the Stars when she was on it or no? Ooh.

[00:25:50] I know Caitlin did. I can Google it. Yeah. Caitlin was a full-on dancer before she ever went on the Bachelor. That's so unfair. But yes. Okay. He did win Dancing with the Stars. So Kelsey is just comedic genius. I follow her on TikTok. No, I don't even think I have to follow her. I just watch so much Kelsey content. She's always there. Yeah. And so I think she's in the league of Gabby Wendy.

[00:26:20] Any TikTok that comes up, you're going to be like, well, let me see what she has to say. So Kelsey, I mean, she's the social media person for this relationship because Joey's not that much. He'll post as he's obligated to do. But Kelsey is the one bringing up like just their funny moments at home and just like bragging about her man because everybody's attracted to her man. And so, yeah. And so, yeah, Kelsey is just the most harmless like person.

[00:26:49] So it was wild to me when I even saw like her name hashtag in some drama. I was like, what the heck? I was like, what the heck? Okay. Okay. That is fun. So Alex Earl said that she got into an altercation with someone during Lady Gaga's performance, which is where this started. And Kelsey Anderson posted like a similar story about like a woman yelling at her.

[00:27:19] Yeah. Like she was like, I'm trying to like Alex Earl's version of the events was, oh, I'm dancing, having a good time. Someone bumped me and like said like, who did who does this girl think she is? She's like, I think that's what she said. And then I said, I'm trying to have a good time. Beep. And so then she's like, yeah, so I don't know who this girl was, blah, blah, blah. Then you see a story from Kelsey because everybody is recording everything, right? Yeah, literally. Kelsey is doing like a get ready with me. And she's like, oh, my gosh, I forgot to tell y'all I was having a good time at Lady Gaga.

[00:27:49] Then this random girl like bumps into me and says, I'm trying to have a good time, B. And so then people compared the stories and was like, what the heck? So neither of them knew who the other was. That's okay. That's so funny. Well, but the thing is, like, I don't think I would recognize Alex Earl if I actually met her out and about. Like, I know her face on TikTok. But like the thing with these TikTok personalities is that they're all kind of moving towards the one true face, you know?

[00:28:19] And so I think I would be more likely to see someone who wasn't Alex Earl and think it's her than actually recognize Alex Earl in front of me. Exactly. Because one thing that really and this is this for a lot of people online real life, too, that like I always use Chappelle as an example. Like height really throws me off. Yeah. If I see someone in real life that I've only seen on social media and they are a different height than what I imagine, I'm questioning if that's the person.

[00:28:48] So like Chappelle, way taller than I thought he would be. Not that he gives short king energy. I told him he doesn't. Oh, he gives short king energy for sure. Yeah. I told him I just didn't expect him to be over six foot. So like, I don't know. Yeah. That's like you and me being like the exact same height. I was I don't know why you would be taller than me. Oh, really? I don't know why. Yeah. But I think it's also like over the computer, I give shorter energy than what I have.

[00:29:17] And so then people are always surprised. Oh, you're tall. Right. And so I think that you just give probably like the appropriate energy for our height. But because I give like less, I expected you to be taller. Yeah, it's it's yeah, it's so yeah, I don't know. I think I expected us to be about the same. I like I didn't I didn't think you would be shorter. But then I did like Liana, I expected her to be taller. Which she really she's so tall and statuesque. Yeah.

[00:29:47] No, I expected her to like before I met her, I thought she was going to be tall. Then when I met her, I said, oh, this checks out. Oh, OK. OK. Yeah. It's right. Like I expected to be seven foot. No. You expected to be Chappelle size. But yeah. Yeah, I just I'm so with you. If I would have saw Alex Earl, because I'm sure Kelsey knows who Alex Earl like she's heard of her. There's no way she hasn't. Yeah.

[00:30:16] So it's like she just like couldn't put a face to a name. It's so weird. And it seems like really they just bumped into each other at a crowded concert. And I'm just like, when did it become a thing where you're like, I need a zone of six feet around me at a concert and no one can come into my. No, you I'm like, I'll push you. Yeah. Like I I'll get to the front of the crowd and I don't care what means I have to use to do it. Right.

[00:30:45] And I don't think that that's inappropriate. Like, I'm not like punching someone. Right. Like, this is the main stage. It's Lady Gaga. Like, what do you expect? Like, that's it. I don't care if I'm at the local. Like, I have a music call that's like pretty like not far from my house. And it's like it probably max capacity is like 500 people. You're still going to be like shoulder to shoulder bumping people. This is Coachella. Like, come on.

[00:31:10] I think if we have to if we're picking sides and we have to say who was in the wrong here, I'm saying Alex Earl was in the wrong. She overreacted. I still don't even understand what happened, but I'm going to agree with you. It's funny, too, because the person that posted like their TikTok side by side to show like just the drama, the comments were filled with Team Kelsey, Team Kelsey. Who wouldn't be? Although.

[00:31:37] Alex Earl is currently embroiled in like some beef with Alex Cooper from Call Her Daddy because of like the Unwell podcast network, like dropped Alex Earl's podcast or maybe she quit. We don't really know. I do think I'm probably Team Alex on that one. Wait, which one? Alex Earl. I just realized they're both in Alex. No, that's the safe thing to say. I'm Team Alex. I'm Team Alex. And then just go with whatever the person with you says.

[00:32:06] Oh, but one more thing from Coachella. Yes. If you did not, if you have not seen any clips of Meg Thee Stallion. Yes. And Victoria Monet. Well, Meg Thee Stallion also brought out Queen Latifah, Sierra. But most notably, she brought out Victoria Monet. And if you have not seen clips of that, you need to go see it. I don't care what your sexual orientation is.

[00:32:31] You will enjoy watching those two perform. It's how can you not? Meg Thee Stallion is so perfect, beautiful, stunning. How could you not? I think there's been so many angles released of their just one little part. Listen, I've seen everything.

[00:33:04] Just this one part of their song. Yeah. Um, yeah. But that, that great, great performance. And I think she's performing again this weekend, right? I think I saw something about Sierra. Oh, no. What I saw was I have a friend who was at Coachella. And last night she posted a piece of Meg performing. Okay. Okay. I love this. Um, there's going to be week two drama. We'll talk about that on the next episode, but I guess we should, we'll close the book

[00:33:33] on, on Coachella, which is really our main topic of conversation, which is why this episode is called Messchella 2025. We literally have to talk about this all women space debacle, which I'm pretty sure it's not the first time that a solely manned by women ship has gone up. Like, I'm pretty sure there was like a solo mission of a woman who's like an actual astronaut,

[00:34:02] which I, the facts are escaping me. How Gayle King is like, you know, I find it really hard to call myself an astronaut because you are not. Yeah, because you're not. Bitch, you're not. And then people are like understandably furious about this whole situation. And she's like, well, I don't accept your opinion unless you've also like talk to me when you've gone to space. Shut up. What do you mean?

[00:34:29] The fact that it was so quick that the time, by the time that I saw it, it said the women have taken off. The women have landed because it was 11 minutes. Yeah. And obviously like huge environmental impact, huge waste of everything. I literally thought DEI was illegal in America. And yet this happened, which what else could you call? They don't know what they believe. They really don't.

[00:34:58] Because now they're trying to flip it and make DEI in the benefit of conservative people saying like that should be taken into consideration. But anyway, that's neither here nor there. If they were so dumb, you could just call it EDI. And they would be like, yes, that's fine. I'm not even joking. I went on a cruise and they were talking. They were basically trying to say they embrace DEI.

[00:35:26] But without saying DEI, they said like we embrace inclusion, equity and something else. It's like, oh, DEI. OK. Which and I just think if you're going to say I'm against DEI, you should have to say I'm against diversity, equity and inclusion. You should have to spell it out. Yeah. Say the full words.

[00:35:50] Even when we were in the Gulf of Mexico, the captain avoided saying it. He said he was like, guys, we're, you know, because all pilots, cruise captains, they all sound the same. It's like, guys, we are in the middle of the Gulf. Wow. He avoided saying either way. Make a stand. What? Yeah. Take a stand. And toes down. That's OK. That's crazy. But yes. OK.

[00:36:18] So they Katy Perry, Lauren Sanchez, Gail King, Amanda Nguyen, Asia, Asia, Aisha. Now I'm because I'm with you. I'm like, right. Carrie Ann Flynn. I apologize to Asia slash Aisha for the mistake. Right. It could be. It could really could be Aisha. It could be Aisha. My apologies. But they went to space for 11 minutes. It's Jeff. Did Jeff Bezos pay for it or did they have to?

[00:36:48] Yeah, it was his. It was his ship or his rocket ship. Yes. That was supposed is supposed to be like the competitor for whatever Elon Musk has going on. Which what are we doing? Why do you want to go to space? Like, I think you're crazy to want to go to Coachella. And yet you want to go be in orbit. No. Keep my feet on the ground. Right. And so Katy Perry's up in space staring at like a freaking flower in front of the camera.

[00:37:18] I guess announcing her tour dates. But I think the feed cut when she was actually. Yeah. It was and it was way too small to even read. I saw someone say Katy Perry goes anywhere except the charts. And so she's not even looking at the planet Earth, which like if you're going to go like you should probably at least look out the damn window. Yeah. She comes back and kisses the ground. She kisses the ground. 11 minutes.

[00:37:48] Yeah. Which is like from the it's it's I mean, obviously, there's some conspiracy theories out there about if this actually happened. And I haven't read enough into those two. Wait, no. Yeah. What do you mean? Because there was a video of like if they are they're supposed to be just kind of like trapped in this container. Right. So when they came back, someone opened the door from the inside.

[00:38:16] It's supposed to be impossible to open from the inside. And so someone opened it from the inside, then closed it really quick. Then the guy came over with the tool to act like he was like opening the door. Oh, my God. And then he opened the door. And so now people are like, oh, my gosh, did they even go up? And people are thinking it didn't actually happen. I don't know. I love this. I literally love this. And I instantly you told me the thing about the door. I instantly believe you believed it.

[00:38:46] I'm like, yeah, that's right. But I'm so primed by being a Taylor Swift fan to believe nonsense. Like I'm it's like basically QAnon at this point to be a Taylor Swift fan. So I recognize that it's they probably went. But I instantly believe you like the second you speak like with authority and say something that doesn't add up. I'm like, yeah, that's right. And then it's like, wait, I should probably consider. Right. That's why I'm like, I'm giving no like I'm not saying I believe that.

[00:39:14] I'm just saying that's what's floating out there. That's what people are saying. And it's I mean, because my personal opinion is so dangerous. Like, I mean, Katy Perry and Gayle King were really OK just going up there like something. You imagine if that had like exploded on reentry or whatever. Like, I feel like that used to happen. Like not a lot, but like enough that you're like, oh, that's scary. Yeah, exactly.

[00:39:42] It's like and the from the images from the video that was taking inside the capsule, it's like they're real they're in space above Earth. Right. But it's like the least dangerous place to be is if they like went up probably just a little bit higher than where planes go. Yeah. But the angle was like, oh, they were in space floating and then came down. So interesting. There probably is more to come since people don't believe it.

[00:40:10] Well, they'll have to go back, obviously. Yes. The Wendy's account replied, like, can we send Katy Perry back to space? Which is like, it's funny. It's funny. Sure. But it's also like Wendy's, you're literally part of the problem. You think all the beef farms for this like aren't releasing an insane amount of methane gas for your Wendy's Square Patty burgers? Yeah.

[00:40:35] But then Kesha posts a picture drinking a Frosty from Wendy's very shortly after. Oh, my God. And obviously Kesha and Katy Perry have beef because Katy Perry continues to work with Kesha. What's his name? Was Dr. Luke actually convicted or is this alleged? I think it's alleged.

[00:40:59] With Kesha's alleged rapist for legal purposes. Katy Perry still works with him, making literally the most flop pop album of all time that nobody cares about. And so she literally had to shoot herself into space to get attention. Yeah. Katy Perry will literally send herself to space before she goes to therapy, you know? Right. Yeah. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. I don't know.

[00:41:27] This is this has been fascinating because like you said, the main the main storyline is the amount of resources it took to do that when there's so much to address on Earth. Jake O'Kane had a very viral tweet where he's just talking about how like he's tired of like billionaires doing stuff, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Well, and like this, they went to space for no reason. There was no scientific experiment.

[00:41:57] There was no like larger purpose. And then Gail King is like, they call it a ride, which I find very irritating because they never say men went for a ride. It's called a flight or a journey. A ride implies something frivolous or lighthearted. There's nothing frivolous about what we did. You literally went to space for no reason. What could be more frivolous? And I'm like, Gail, I generally like Gail King. I feel like she does great interviews.

[00:42:23] But she said in response to the backlash that this is getting, she goes, well, it's not like we didn't take anything away from Earth. It's not like, oh, this took just because we did that, it took something away from Earth. It literally did. It literally did. What do you mean? Oh, gosh. And they're like, yeah, well, despite these criticisms, like Katy Perry still identifies as an environmentalist. OK.

[00:42:52] And as an astronaut now and as a climate criminal by mass magnets. Katy Perry does say that she doesn't regret going to space, but she regrets making a public spectacle of it. Yeah, because she doesn't care. And she's sick that we all have her name in our mouth right now. And it's not for her dumbass AI single or whatever. Right. She did sing up there, but I can't remember what song they said it was.

[00:43:22] Oh, my God. It was probably like Imagine. I don't know. OK. We are the world. Maybe. Right. Oh, wait. I've just now been so loud that I've received a text message from my boyfriend. He said, LOL, I hear you talking about Katy Perry. Did you catch when she said, oh, my goddess instead of, oh, my God. I didn't. But OK.

[00:43:52] Oh, man. So funny. OK. That's that. We've we've. She's stop. Stop. She's already dead. We have to move on. OK. I just wanted this is like my one opportunity to talk about love is blind because I actually was really into this past season, even though everybody hated it. And apparently it was bad.

[00:44:19] And I just since you are, you know, the premier love is blind podcaster for the Taddy Network, I wanted to know your opinions on Sarah and Joey dating. Yeah. Even though they both have tried to deny it, it's like pretty obvious people keep. But it's Ben and Monica both were like, I've been told like you told me they're together. Right. It's like they don't want the public judgment, but it's just like, come on, come on and come out with it.

[00:44:48] Multiple people have spotted them together. Yeah. Y'all aren't. They were kissing. Yeah. Yeah. But we're not together. And it's it's interesting because they were dating in the pods like that was an under edited part. They were considering each other. So this is one of those situations where you go back to the this is no different than Megan Mason, where you're going back to the person that you didn't end up with.

[00:45:19] So I guess they just don't want it to seem like they weren't trying with their original partners. If that makes sense. Yeah. But it's like if y'all work, y'all work. I would I would prefer to see social media content of y'all together than y'all denying accusations and trying to act like it never happened. Yes. And yeah. So apparently it was like a Ben, Monica, Sarah, Joey was like a love square in the pods, which wasn't really shown. They didn't really show. I feel Monica on any dates with anyone except Joey.

[00:45:48] And they only showed like two dates and then they were engaged. And then they did the early engage. They let them be the first engagement, which is usually supposed to be like your one solid couple because you don't have they like they didn't consider anyone else. And so I guess they just realized they had enough triangles and squares and whatever to deal with on this season. But I think to have two couples that ended up together and then for them to waste time

[00:46:14] on the two that didn't even end up to like the four that didn't even get engaged was a wild choice. It was interesting. It was really interesting. Ben and so it's like Sarah and Ben were engaged and Monica and Joey were engaged and they didn't get married. And now Sarah and Joey are dating. And then now Ben and Monica are posting like constantly together. Yeah. Almost as if they are dating, but they are on there. We are not dating. We're just making fun content together.

[00:46:44] The world can take it how they want. And Ben's like, but I wouldn't rule out dating Monica in the future. I'm like, so are you together or not? Tell me the truth. Stop lying. See, I could see. So this is a I think they're doing this just for the attention because I could see him liking her because he's so agreeable. He could be with anybody, in my opinion. Her literally just like a blank. Yeah, like person. Exactly.

[00:47:11] Like the like, where is the it's hard to. Like even after covering a full season of him and getting to see all these different angles, you can't even describe his personality. He don't. He don't have one. Right. He's it's the kind of thing where if you meet Ben and you don't like his personality, it means you don't like yourself because he is mirroring back. Yeah. He is the type of person that will just give you what you want. Exactly.

[00:47:39] But then for Monica, I'm like, OK, you're into someone like Joey. Joey, I don't I just couldn't see her being into Ben. Did you Kate? Did you ever see Joey's bachelor audition tape that came out? No. After the season, he like it was when he had short hair and he was like working out a lot. It was weird. So Joey's just been trying to get on TV. Yeah. And so that to me makes me think like, oh, Joey and Ben are not so different. And they are cut from the same cloth. Yeah. And then we mentioned Mason and Meg are back together.

[00:48:09] Boo. I don't care. Leave Madison out the mouth. Yeah. And it's like, duh. What? Y'all literally nothing has changed about your relationship from being together, doing the reveal together to decide to be best friends, but continue to stay in each other's lives very seriously and then deciding to date again. Like, I feel like we're too we know too much and we haven't asked. Okay. There's just one thing that I do want to share because I saw a clip from the interview that they did on some podcast where they announced a relationship.

[00:48:39] I guess when they were like apart, Meg went on one date from the apps and then she was like, okay, well, this is over. Like Mason, let's just be together. Guess who that day was with the guy Lauren was seeing right before she went into the Oh my God. Just like a random coincidence off the apps that she went on a date with him. And then he like mentioned it on the date. Like he was like, Oh, like, were you like on Love is Blind? Were you awake? Cause she was like being cagey about what she's been up to.

[00:49:09] And he was like, yeah, like my like ex was on Love is Blind. Like I know I'm like, it's like part of the drama. And then Meg was like, never mind, Mason. You're the best I can get. So Minneapolis is really that small. Yes. Yes. That's insane. Isn't that crazy? What a wild coincidence. Oh my gosh. Yeah. For such a like. A season that didn't have as much drama as some previous seasons. It has had a lot of postseason developments.

[00:49:39] It's just nonsense. All of it's nonsense. And that's why I love it. Yeah. I also saw, I think I sent you the video of the, um, I can't even remember their names anymore, which is, oh, Brit. A knee. Oh, yes. Um, she was on the whole show. I can't remember her name. Uh, the, the Devin and Virginia, Virginia. Thank you. I was like, Victoria. No, no. No, um, they, them talking about how Virginia was addicted.

[00:50:09] He got, he got, he got mad that she had ibuprofen out for a headache because it, because it was triggering to him. Yeah. Anyway. Anyways. Um, thank you for indulging me in that. So many, so many medical professionals have debunked the ability to get addicted to ibuprofen. He wasn't even taking the maximum daily dose of ibuprofen.

[00:50:36] And I like, I'm just like, uh, yeah. Imagine if Devin had to experience the pain of a menstrual cramp. I'm dying to see him with like, you know, the like sensor thing that they put on and they're like, here's one, here's whatever. I love to see Devin put one of those on. It's funny. I saw a TikTok where this woman like recorded her husband. She was like, he has the flu and he's in bed. He has on like ice pack. He's like under the covers. He's just like shivering.

[00:51:05] And she turned the camera to herself and she said, I also have the flu. She's just like, fine. We bear so much as women. It's wrong. It's actually sick and wrong that that's the way the world works. And I counter that by being as baby as possible when I don't feel good. Exactly. I'm like, I have like a migraine. I'm like, I can work anyway. I'm like, no, a man would not. Yeah. Literally a man would not.

[00:51:35] No, I've literally seen on Slack men being out of office migraine today. But like you should be. You should be out of office with a migraine. It only makes it worse to work through. Exactly. Okay. I just wanted to quickly just mention two little stories that I saw that made me laugh.

[00:51:56] One, Selena Gomez posted a photo and fans zoomed in to see the KY Jelly on the like windowsill behind her on the couch. Good for you. I don't think. And nobody's mad about it. Everybody is like, there's no outrage. There's no drama. Everyone's like, oh, yeah, I know Benny Blanco's got it like that. The way this relationship is still growing on me. I know.

[00:52:25] I love them. I literally love them. Not for reasons. Other people are thinking like, oh, people are thinking, oh, he like she's he's she's way out of his league or whatever. Not that. I'm just thinking about how close Benny Blanco and Justin Bieber used to be. Like, that's how I knew Benny Blanco. The songs that he was producing for both Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber about each other at the same time is wild. So that's what I just feel.

[00:52:54] I'm trying to wrap my mind around. I love the lore. I like never really. I'd like heard the name, but I never really knew who he was. And then it turns out like every banger pop song from the 2010s. He had a hand in. So I love it. Yeah. Yeah. And also, surprise, surprise, Drake added the Super Bowl performance to his defamation suit against UMG.

[00:53:18] They literally said, you know, they love to see before Kendrick performed not like us. Right. The way I saw that headline on CNN yesterday and I was like, oh, come on. I was like, oh, it took him a while. I thought he would have done this. But they would that's what someone wanted. Like there was an attorney on there saying like, OK, like you are opening the floodgate to you being questioned as well about everything.

[00:53:47] So be careful what you ask for. I was like, oh, if he is claiming that Kendrick saying certified lover boy, certified pedophile in the song is defamation against him. He now has to go to court and prove that he's not. Exactly. Prove it. Prove it, Drake. Exactly. And it's just like it. That is. Oh, that's just going to open up a can of worms. Like, OK, let's please explain your relationship with.

[00:54:18] Why is her name escaping me? Eleven from. Oh, shit. Why? There's someone out there screaming to us. Why can't we remember anyone's Bobby? Millie Bobby Brown. Millie Bobby. Thank you. Yeah. Millie Bobby Brown. What about this clip of Billie Eilish talking about how much you text her when she was 16 years old? Yeah. Listen, I'm not a court of law. This is just my opinion. But I think that he is going to have some trouble.

[00:54:49] Right. With these allegations. Exactly. Because it's like these to him were friends. But then like try to prove that to an adult that there wasn't more like. It's but I just it's so weird because it's like we're the same age. You and I. Imagine hanging out with a 20 year old right now. I know. Ew. A child. A little infant. I mean, I even feel that way hanging out with my brother and he's 27.

[00:55:20] No, it's just like it's just a baby. He's still growing up, you know? Yeah. It's just it's interesting. Yeah. Those are we don't have to. I really dig in. I did just want to for matter of record wanted to talk about. For the record. Okay. so we have reached just about the end there's just one more one more thing to get into and this is

[00:55:47] anonymous which at the end of every podcast we share a bit of anonymous gossip from a listener or an advice question from a listener just mess from listeners uh are you ready for this mess I thought this was this made me laugh out loud so the first line of this our messenger says I know you're not a parenting podcast and I was like yes a podcast of two childless women in their 30s is

[00:56:12] the perfect place to address a parenting issue do not eliminate our pet children no but also like okay I know people be like oh you don't have kids you can't have an opinion well guess what I was a kid so I actually do feel like I can have an opinion I do have full-blown debates with Jason Reed over on a perfect match uh where we talk about how he's an actual father and I am the mother of

[00:56:40] pepper and cinnamon um my mall she poos no those are your babies you literally carried them in birth like if I had the sonogram to prove it I would and you do I believe it um okay so there's a little bit of family drama that's been driving our messenger crazy and she and she needs some advice on how to move forward okay so our messengers brother's brother's wife has banned the tv show bluey from her household oh this is quote oh this

[00:57:09] is that's a bad example for her kids the way bluey is on as we speak for pepper and cinnamon downstairs yes it's like they they are watching it right now you know about blue all I know about bluey um is well our messenger says a car Australian cartoon that follows a little dog named bluey her sister and parents it's super cute um bluey her sister and her friends act like childish annoying because they're kids and then they learn proper manners and correct their behavior by the end of the

[00:57:39] episode the only other thing I know about bluey other than this is that when Mike Bloom was on um pod friends he talked about how he is learning so much about like being a good dad from watching bluey and how good it is yes I mean the way I will just sit down like I always put on bluey for the girls when I leave and I come back and I'm like well let me go ahead and finish this episode yes okay I love this and so our messenger's like I don't care that it's banned from their house we don't suggest it

[00:58:08] while we're visiting we don't have it on when they visit our house like you do you it's it's fine um but she keeps this like the the household that's banned bluey keeps talking to her mother-in-law who is our messenger's mom okay about how much better behaved her kids are since banning bluey and how much better our messenger's life would be if she did the same banning bluey for her kid

[00:58:31] oh my gosh and she'll post things on social media about tv being bad for kids especially bluey and tagging our messenger in the post and bringing it up every time there's a family function or they see each other oh my gosh right so here's an example of this last time the families were all together her son the son that's not allowed to watch bluey instead of saying would you please pass the mashed

[00:59:00] potatoes screamed potatoes at his dad and our our messenger's brother the father of the child took the opportunity to be like hey actually we don't just yell potatoes when we don't potatoes we say could you please pass the mashed potatoes and then i pass them to you and then the son did it properly and then they pass the potatoes and they were kind of chuckling about it afterwards like haha

[00:59:23] kids yeah when the sister-in-law goes you know they learned that from bluey right and our messenger goes don't most kids do that like i'm pretty sure like me and my brother like your husband did that as kids and our messenger's dad so the dad-in-law of the anti-bluey household nodded like yeah they did that as kids and so our messenger's like okay no that's the end of it but this woman is pushing it she's

[00:59:49] like no my kids never did that before watching bluey maybe because they didn't know how to talk yet um and then i so our messenger previously worked at elementary school like a decade ago and she told a story about like this type of thing and a unique neat a unique way that a teacher corrected behavior and said well bluey didn't exist back then so what do you blame that behavior on since you insist it's

[01:00:14] right um and this so this was i guess very forward for our messenger they don't normally like make a point like that and so this anti-bluey woman did not have a response ready and was just kind of awkward and then our messenger's husband who is like a peacekeeper type was like oh wow it's like a chicken and the egg situation like which came first yeah our messenger goes no we know what came

[01:00:38] first kids misbehave and their parents teach them better it's what it's what has always happened and it's what literally what happens on bluey and so then like one of the kids said something it divided their attention they moved on but the sister-in-law wouldn't speak to our messenger directly for the rest of the night oh and our messenger's mom told her later that the sister-in-law was mad that she pushed back during dinner and so our messenger asks where do i go from here

[01:01:08] do i just apologize to keep the peace do i call her out and ask what her deal is with trying to convince me bluey is the devil like it's very weird and last point our messenger finds it hilarious that it's the anti-bluey households kid that did the behavior even though they hadn't watched bluey in months and yet somehow she's a little fixated on me allowing it out i this goes back to the quote

[01:01:34] like correlation does not cause causation yes like just because two things are happening concurrently does not mean that that is the cause of it and i i want to know did this sister-in-law did she like audition for a role on bluey and they declined her they were like sorry you're not australian actually take them down

[01:02:00] i i have i i will tell you i've seen many episodes of bluey i have and i can't if any so for one the episodes are like 10 minutes or less and it's always just like one lesson that's like learned throughout the episode like sharing or whatever the parents are so sweet it shows just like the

[01:02:27] diverse range of like parenthood um we have bandit who's like a stay-at-home dad and then the mom chili is the one that works uh and then bluey the journeys of being a big sister to bingo uh and just like they and they show their cousins they show their friends they show their parents friends it's like this whole world of bluey that i never once have thought this is inappropriate for children

[01:02:52] i could think of ran and stimpy rocko's modern life all these shows that we should not have been watching as children that were so inappropriate i mean like even shows that are like kid appropriate like did you ever watch caillou that bald-headed mommy i've heard of him but i didn't watch it i i saw some caillou when i was younger and he all he does is cry and throw tantrums and i feel like he never learned the lesson to act appropriately and yet guess what i'm fine i don't throw tantrums

[01:03:21] i i don't like beat my little sister up like it's fine um isn't like isn't the whole point of having kids that you like teach them the right way and then right you kind of have to have an example of what not to do in order to teach them what to do exactly imagine did you ever have those manners books growing up where it'd be like this one's about saying please and thank you this one's about whatever and yeah it starts with not knowing what to do and then by the end of the little picture book the

[01:03:51] 10 pages what you should know what you should do and it's i'm imagining someone reading the first two pages of the manners book and being like this is bad this child didn't say please and thank you so my kids can't read these books it's called manners the book exactly i okay i think that this is a place where you can get petty for our messenger can get a little bit petty because you're not forcing her

[01:04:18] kid to watch bluey it's not like you're like come over nephew or a blueython you're having a bluey marathon um you literally like okay well we won't even have it on for our kid when you're gonna come over like you're respecting their boycott and they are acting crazy and so i feel like there's probably like minding your own business and i think you should give it to her to reach her son and like

[01:04:46] i just i challenge her to ask her if she's watched a full episode of bluey like she's only seen the first minute exactly she sees bluey not going to bed but missing the whole point of the episode like and in end why is it specifically bluey like why are there no other shows like i i had i i knew a guy one time who he wouldn't let his son who was like two or three watch spongebob because he felt

[01:05:15] like spongebob showed uh like it was spongebob was so irresponsible as an adult and it was teaching his son that that's okay but i feel like spongebob struggled a lot if anything it shows you don't do that at 40 what i think spongebob is technically like 42 or something oh see this is where i wasn't allowed to watch spongebob so i have no concept but that was because i get i i know why it was you

[01:05:42] know why and also my mom would be like that's stupid you're not allowed to watch it like that was the reason we'd be told like you can watch that that's stupid but then it would be like so like arbitrary because it'd be like digimon that's stupid you can't watch that pokemon totally fine you're allowed watch that and we'll buy you the car it's like yeah ash got to catch them all yes but yeah i think it's totally like i agree with you the move here is to be petty um i don't think

[01:06:10] if she's going to continue to just have it out for bluey and blame bluey from every every little thing it'd also be cool to turn the tables and be like oh your kid did a really cool thing he learned that from bluey or oh my gosh like your kid just said a very impressive word they learned that on bluey it's like tit for tat would be amazing because this is just an irrational it's a thing at this

[01:06:36] point yeah i also think at this point you could totally get away with any time this comes up say you're allowed to raise your child however you want to raise your child and i will raise my child how i want to raise my child please stop giving me parenting advice unless i ask for it and tell that to your mom say hey next time sister-in-law is coming at you about me raising my child how i want

[01:07:00] by allowing bluey in the house can you tell her that's not your business yes this isn't about you and i and i and you could even challenge her more like she's like okay potatoes they learned that from bluey can you show me where which episode was it can you show me exactly where because it's like once someone is challenged to prove their thoughts uh they have a hard time doing that and if you can't

[01:07:27] back it up then you can start to maybe think it's silly yeah but i can understand why this would be so frustrating like i'd be pissed if i was this messenger now it's just like i would i shoot i take it the next level we'd have bluey decorate my my child would be having a bluey birthday party the next birthday louis at the party yeah exactly

[01:07:56] honestly that should be for for your spice girls next birthday you know what that's an amazing idea because i didn't do this last year uh didn't do a birthday party at their daycare this last year but i think i want to do this year so cinnamon will be three and pepper will be five and i'm just very excited for them and it's a big year for pepper so i think bluey and bluey might be the move you just

[01:08:22] gave me the idea right here i can't wait i can't wait to see the pictures i love when people have a birthday party for their dogs it makes me so happy because guess what dog pets are the new children and plants are the new pets exactly exactly um okay that is all for this episode of mess magnets asia thank you so much once again for coming in covering for sasha and doing literally an amazing job thank you

[01:08:50] yeah i love pop culture and i just like try to slip it in whenever i can uh whenever i'm me and jason are podcasting so like uh we uh we have a patreon and so we've been covering the first season of married at first sight and like this last episode we covered uh where we talked about episode three we said uh we we had a full like 10 minutes where we just talked about the wmba draft and what's gonna

[01:09:16] happen in the wmba and that i literally was gonna actually put that as a point to talk about but then i was like this is kind of like dark allegations against a person like i don't want to talk about where that's a situation where there is smoke there is fire there's way too many um alleged victims yeah um but it also kind of just shines a light on the wmba itself and how they take serious even

[01:09:46] allegations compared to other leagues well yeah because it's like even if it's proven women it's whatever you'll be punished but men don't get yeah exactly way exactly they're like that's their personal life where the wmba is like well we we care about like like the same people are players yes exactly so props to the wmba honestly hell yes uh can you give them the name of your patreon in

[01:10:14] case anyone wants to go check out this uh mario to first sight watch through that you're doing with jason yes so y'all can find us at patreon.com slash a perfect match podcast so this is a place uh for jason and i to talk about all bonus content for mario to first sight we are continuing to cover like the live seasons of mario to first sight on rob has a podcast so you could still find that here we just wrapped up season 18 which was there was so much drama so you can find that on the

[01:10:43] rhap youtube channel as well as the love at first sight feed where you can get all the podcasts for rhap for love is blind married at first sight the ultimatum the show perfect match yeah which props to you and jason for covering the last season we missed you we needed a responsible adult and we didn't have one yeah uh we know a perfect match season three is coming out at some point later this

[01:11:09] year so that'll be there uh but yeah we continue to the to cover the current seasons of mario to first sight on rhap but for any bonus content you can go to patreon.com slash a perfect match podcast we um we also have done some post-season interviews for season 18 it's on the rhap youtube channel so you can find all of that there so that's my main bread and butter right now in terms of podcasting but you can follow me on all social media at asia like asia that's a-y-s-h-a like a-s-i-a i'm the most

[01:11:38] active on instagram so come come come over there if you want to see what my dogs are up to and you do want to if you don't know if you want to or not you want to they're so precious um and yes so follow sasha everywhere at fun size underscore oh four she's covering jet lag with taran and i think maybe some superhero stuff over on we know scripted tv dark something i swear every time it's just like in

[01:12:05] one every time jason plugs it it's in one ear and i just swear i that world i know nothing about but yeah i know him and sasha are talking about something yeah it's they they are doing it to go over to we know scripted tv to go check that out and then for myself you can catch me covering actually battle camp on netflix with chapelle over on nothing but netflix will be dropping in a couple of days and we are covering that over there so you can check that out and you can follow

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